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Friday, June 06, 2008

i'm no psychic vampire :)

i've fallen
but you cant break my fall
what we had
was nothing at all

misunderstandings arise when people assume too much, disappointment sinks in when people expect.
these things happen mostly between friends, to people we care about. not really between strangers, strangely.
misunderstandings.
most people have very flawed thin-slicing.
thin-slicing refers to the adapting of the sub-conscious that allows you to read subtle expressions and glean a conclusion, like whether a person is expressing false niceness, or whether a person has hidden agendas. (you know how they say 70% of a conversation is made by observing the person's expressions)
but people misinterpret all the time.
disappointment.
people, especially friends, expect things out of friendships.
by things, i dont exactly mean material goods. for example, people often expect friends to mind-read them. " you should know..." they often say. i ask: how are we supposed to know, if you dont say.?

the brutal truth is such that all relationships are conditional.
and the world will be a much better place if everyone fucking say what they mean.

always and forever,
is such a long and lonely time..


she's not here @

5:12 PM